Adopted dog: lower expectations and increase patience 

Everyone has a different series of thoughts when they adopt an adult or older dog. Puppies are one thing, basically everything you work on doesn’t change from dog to dog. You begin with potty training and nipping then move on to not jumping, sit, come and leash walking. Skills for public and private manners follow later.

But what about a dog that you have no background or history on? Where do you begin when you have no idea what they may know or don’t know? You may not know whether they previously lived in a home, a yard or lived on the street.

The most common assumption is that if they are an adult then they have been potty trained well enough to live in a home. Very often this is simply not true. Even if they are adult, rescues recommend you begin with crate training. It is so important to not let the new dog have free run of the house. If they aren’t used to being inside and, on a schedule, they do not understand that it is not ok to potty inside. A crate can help to set up schedules but also the enclosed area will not be a conducive space for them to relieve themselves. This gives you time to figure out the new dog’s schedule without allowing the dog to imprint undesirable habits.  

Another benefit of a crate, even with an adult, is to monitor any potentially destructive behavior. If the dog is stressed in the new environment, they might take it out by actively destroying things. Walls, furniture, rugs, clothing etc. are fair game of the dog is nervous. By confining them when they are not supervised you increase the chances of keeping the dog. We all know that if the dog is destructive, you may not want to give them the chance they need to adjust.  Patience is so important for a successful outcome.

Potty training and chewing are two of the most common issues but there are more. Adjustments to other family pets, children, men vs. women, noises, leash walking and oh so much more. We wish we could read their minds or ask them questions about their past but alas no.

There is an often talked about rule in rescue referred to as 3 Days, 3 Weeks, 3 Months. This rule may offer a better understanding as to what your dog is going through and what you can provide to assure the most successful transition. Keep your expectations realistic and your patience high and you will have a loving forever four legged friend. 

First 3 Days:
The initial period is often characterized by stress, anxiety, and fear as the dog adjusts to a new environment and routines. They may be overwhelmed, shy, or shut down. The focus should be on providing a safe space, minimizing stress, and establishing basic routines. 

Next 3 Weeks:
During this phase, the dog begins to settle in and acclimate to the new home. They may start to show more of their personality and engage with their new family. It’s a good time to start introducing basic training and building a bond. 

First 3 Months:
This is when the dog starts to truly feel at home and relaxed in their new environment. They should be more confident and trusting, and the focus can shift to continued socialization and training.

Abby Bird is the owner of Alphadog Training Academy. AlphadogTrainingAcademy@gmail.com